To wear this tee, just slip it on like any other shirt. It's suitable for all genders and looks great on its own or layered. When it comes to maintenance, machine wash it in cold water with like colors to keep it in good condition. Avoid using bleach as it may damage the fabric. Tumble dry on low heat. Since it's made to order, please be patient during the 7 - 10 business day processing time. And keep in mind that black and white are solid colors, while some blend colors might have different shades.