To wear this tee, simply put it on like any other shirt. Since it's made to order, please be patient during the 7 - 10 business - day processing time. When washing at home, don't worry too much about shrinkage as it's pre - shrunk. However, to keep the colors vibrant, especially for the pigment dye ones with their vintage look, use a gentle cycle and cold water. Hang it to dry to avoid any potential misshaping. For the reactive dye colors, they'll also stay soft and look great with the same care. If there are any shade variations, that's just part of the natural pigment dye process. Enjoy your comfortable and stylish tee!