To wear this t-shirt, simply put it on like any other shirt. It's a unisex relaxed fit, so it should be comfortable for everyone. When it comes to washing, use cold water and a gentle cycle to keep the faux sequin design looking great. Don't bleach it as it may damage the design. Hang it to dry instead of using the dryer to avoid shrinking. Also, since these tees are made to order, please be patient during the 7 - 10 business - day processing time.